Happiness a State of Mind ?

[swami]

They say Happiness is a state of mind then why is it so difficult to be happy ?

[sgars]

Your state of mind makes it difficult to be happy. Change it.


An example - Your GF (or BF ) Ditches you.
Sad state of Mind - !@@^ she/he ditched me.
Happy state of mind - Wow, i am single again or
Got rid that **&&^^@^ without any effort

[sarv_shaktimaan]

Happiness is a state of mind.. Fact

Just like water has states.. solid, liquid, gas.. similarly happiness is a temporary state which goes and comes acc to situations and events in life. Sadness is also a beautiful state, something to cherish but know fully well it will be over much like happiness. All the states of mind are fleeting.

P.S. Read my signature. I believe in it big time.

[badriprasad]

Originally Posted by sgars

Your state of mind makes it difficult to be happy. Change it.


An example - Your GF (or BF ) Ditches you.
Sad state of Mind - !@@^ she/he ditched me.
Happy state of mind - Wow, i am single again or
Got rid that **&&^^@^ without any effort

His GF ditched him. Jerk him as much as you like ... the fact - she ditched him. There are no excuses for a man getting ditched. He is ditched. You jerking him is not gonna help. Lets find out why she ditched him.

Swamiji ... why did she ditch you? Sgar is EC's resident expert in getting "ditched department" ... how can he help you get over disappointment of getting ditched?


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