Originally Posted by Amogh
An example is worth a thousand words of explanation. I have posted two yet you guys don't get it.
What I expected you to say,
"There is nothing abnormal about being upstairs. You can stay there as long as you please. If you wish to be there 24/7/365, it's your prerogative. If somebody has any problem they should be the ones either leaving the place or paying rent for staying there, not you. Because it is your house and a space for your family."
You can present and paint a thousand pictures... but you do not seem to understand a simple thing. That is, once you give something to someone... it is theirs, however to use. Regardless of whether you sold it for a price or given it away free. You cannot expect to keep using it everyone now and then... or 24/7/365.
That upstairs area where your sister and niece live is their space now, you or your parents have given it to them. If you keep visiting that area at odd hours then you are intruding. Plain and simple.