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Old November 17th, 2011, 05:26 PM
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Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

Does what Madhur did with Preeti qualify to be called as rape? She says he raped her 16 times? But there is no mention of tying her to a bed post for days and did what she says he did. When she got chance to go back home and come back yet another day for another session, how could this be called "outraging the modesty of a lady".
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The innocent Preeti Jain on her way out of Madhur's house

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Re: Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

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The innocent Preeti Jain on her way out of Madhur's house

Don't understand... what has this picture got to do with the rape allegations

... not that I know anything about this story... but it seems you are trying to hint something by posting that picture... that's all...

And if she is on her way out... why is she trying to open the door from the hinge-side Looks more like she just came in... and is removing her shoes near the door...
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Old November 18th, 2011, 03:34 AM
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Re: Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

If you read the IPC the defination of rape is real stupid,a girl can go with you till foreplay but at the last moment if she says no penetration and if you penetrate its rape.
The courts before taking this rape case should have asked what was she doing with him after the the first time he raped her why did she not complain and waited for 16 times to report it ?

Crying rape is the easiest emotional blackmail a female can have on a male.

Madhur Bhandarkar should have reported her for prostitution because according to the laws offering sex for favour be it for money or anything else amounts to prostitution.
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Old November 18th, 2011, 08:34 PM
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Re: Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

She can claim for the first time that she had foreplay with him and decided against penetration.... but nevertheless, he penetrated. Howz she going to explain the subsequent 15 times.... all she wanted was foreplay and no penetration and she was just hoping he turn considerate to her?
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Old November 18th, 2011, 09:01 PM
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Re: Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

Bhandarkar married his girlfriend Renu Namboodiri-Bhandarkar on 15 December 2003 in Mumbai

In 2004, Preeti had approached Versova police, accusing Bhandarkar of rape.
According to her, Bhandarkar promised to marry her and to cast her in his films, but later he went back on his promise.

Rape as in Indian constitution says this :

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Section 375 of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) defines rape. Rape (from Latin rapio, to carry off, to overcome) means an unlawful intercourse done by a man with a woman without her valid consent. In certain cases, when consent is taken by fraudulent means or by misrepresentation, the act is still ûquite rightly- taken as rape. A rapist, for instance can put a gun at his victim's head and obtain consent. Still better, he could ask one of his goons to put a gun on her husband's head and tell her that the gun would go off if she did not relent. Consent could also be had fraudulently by giving her intoxicating or stupefying substances ( Cannabis is just one of the many stupefying drugs which can be given to achieve this). Another way of getting consent by fraudulent means is by impersonation. A rapist may slip into the bed of an unsuspecting woman in the thick of night, when the woman, taking him to be her husband not only does not resist, but actively participates in the act. These cases are rare but do occur occasionally. Finally the consent of a woman of unsound mind and of a girl below 16 are not taken to be lawful consent because it is presumed that these women are not in a position to truly understand the nature and gravity of sexual intercourse.
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Re: Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

almost everywhere in the world where sensible rule-of-law exists, an intercourse with a woman without her consent is called rape. so that is fine.

what is not completely fine is that after a prolonged period of time, the woman or girl alleging that such and such person raped her so many times under the pretext of such and such promise. but even that may not be called completely out of place. u screwed her under the pretext of promising her something [basically fooled her] or screwed her with physical dominance, either way she should have a right to level allegations. the system should be able to distinguish between genuine and false cases.
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Re: Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

But then what about a girl swindling a guy , doing aisho aaram on his behalf , uses him for gifts , saying she loves her, has intimate relations , and when a new opportunity arises she goes to other man after dumping the guy .

Can it be considered rape ?

The way consent was acquired is important in this case . I mean she had a choice or rather she could have asked for certain guarantees before she engaged in intercourse . Just anyone can pull someone to court just based on promises given, then we could have gotten rid of all the politicians
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Re: Madhur Bhandarkar and Preeti Jain

Men cant use the term rape,one of the few options he has under the law is booking her under cheating but men are emotional fool and they think a lot about her reputation and somewhere in his heart is the hope that she may return back or he may get another chance
How can a man prove her consent ? video/sound recording all the meetings or getting a consent form signed from her.Arre baba who would imagine that things would go so sour and she would cry rape ?Agar pehle pata hota ke woh rape chilane waali hai would he even try a chance on her.
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But then what about a girl swindling a guy , doing aisho aaram on his behalf , uses him for gifts , saying she loves her, has intimate relations , and when a new opportunity arises she goes to other man after dumping the guy .

Can it be considered rape ?

The way consent was acquired is important in this case . I mean she had a choice or rather she could have asked for certain guarantees before she engaged in intercourse . Just anyone can pull someone to court just based on promises given, then we could have gotten rid of all the politicians
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But then what about a girl swindling a guy , doing aisho aaram on his behalf , uses him for gifts , saying she loves her, has intimate relations , and when a new opportunity arises she goes to other man after dumping the guy .

Can it be considered rape ?

The way consent was acquired is important in this case . I mean she had a choice or rather she could have asked for certain guarantees before she engaged in intercourse . Just anyone can pull someone to court just based on promises given, then we could have gotten rid of all the politicians
'consent' is different for male and females. it appears the way law looks at it [and its not entirely out of place], the guy's consent is always there. girl's consent is not assumed by defualt. she has to be explicit about it. basically, aadmi to ghoda hai. aurat is different. something like that..
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preeti jain gets three years imprisonment for trying to kill bhandarkar

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/i...w/58414282.cms
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If you read the IPC the defination of rape is real stupid,a girl can go with you till foreplay but at the last moment if she says no penetration and if you penetrate its rape.
yes. this should be called rape. She said No. it means, no, stop.


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yes. this should be called rape. She said No. it means, no, stop.


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If he actually stops, it is called KLPD.
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