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Old June 22nd, 2001, 02:03 PM
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Old June 22nd, 2001, 02:12 PM
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Mai roj nahata hoon.
Roj chadi baniyaan badaltaa hoon
Roj naye socks pahentaa hoon
Jute bilkul official pahantaa hoon
Vo scent vent bhi lagaa leta hoon
I carry a wallet (dont ask if it has money)
Office jaate ho ki mujraa sunane jaate ho. Lagta ghar pe batana padega.

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Old June 22nd, 2001, 02:13 PM
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Oy.. office me mujraa sunte hain..
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really speaking...making friends all depends upon "JOG-SANJOG" - circumstances.

if you were all alone on an island, you would be friends with the first person to come along - at least for a while till you realized what a bugger he/she is
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Talking Behna jee

I like your reply.

The distinction I am making is not on dress. But more physical attributes. Yeh dekho na, aapne humko bhai keh kar sammaanith kiya. I may be short fat black and extremely repulsive to look at!!!



And let me hastily add (before I seem saint-ish hehehehe) that I myself have done so in the past!!!

But catch myself doing so now. In fact thats why this thread started. A friend of ours always wants to meet up and we kinda avoid her!! I was discussing this with my wife and found I was judging her based on looks!! Which is unfair!

We have control over hygiene, dressing and ettiquette!

Those we can change.

Looks we cant. And thats when I thought, I may have missed out on so many good relationships 'cause of this attitude!!

P.S. Our friend is coming over this weekend

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Old June 22nd, 2001, 02:23 PM
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Yaar videshee tu itaa senti kyun hai re... ite sare chejon ko dil pe lega to poblem ho jaayega re.. Dil pe mat le yaar.. ????? pe le..
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Talking Oy GPL bhai

insaan ki ek aur khoobiyath yeh hai ke apne aap ko constantly improve kar saktha hai!!

And the first step is to admit that yeah I have done/thought/said something that is wrong!!

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I was just pulling your leg man..
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par yaar 6' ki tho height se ab zyaada nahin badhna!!! hehehehe
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If it comes to looks, bhaiyya, then no, we need not judge some one based on looks.

Personally, I do sometimes fall prey to it. My pet peeve is teeth. If they are crooked, broken or not there... it does not matter! But they cannot be dirty - as in yellowing teeth and foul smell.

To be frank, I'm not an extremely good looking person, so basically I do not allow myself to be judgmental about that. Because if that was the case.. would I have so many friends today? Honestly, I don't know...
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i remember in my real life i used to stay with a person,
who was dirty to core(more than me , i am dirty by any standard in looks as well as in hygine).by he was my room mate , and one of those rare intelligent ones ( man he is one of valley millionaire(in stocks now)) but let me tell u .people used to hate like hell.i mean people will be not talk to you , movie bhi nahi le jate the.

and another thing , in this i will ask another thing.how much does your smoking/drinking habbits matter. will u like to talk to another person if he is drunk and u are not .

and in between super girl , what is this thing about teeth.dost banana hai , kiss thode hi karna hai( could not resist asking)

so in my opinion i myself never cared about dress , hygine attiributes .only thing matters is brain.man i mean if god has not given u iq , sorry life was not fair so in this life time , you have no chance to talk to me.that is reason i think i am still babeless lol.
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For me it is not appearance which counts but the interests. I find it difficult to be friends with highly religious and god-fearing people. Like desichacha I can't communicate with people who don't have a certain level of IQ. Not that I have a top notch one, but a fair one of 118. I also find it difficult to get on with people who are highly sensitive. I never know if what I say would hurt them.

I am saying all this but I am married to a person who is not only highly religious and god-fearing but also very sensitive and we have been together for 20 years.
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Old June 26th, 2001, 12:59 AM
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netra reply give my confidence
that even with my belief i think i can marry girl which is beautiful because if netra can live with some one who is totallly opposite to what she thinks , i think i can also have one dump beautiful babe.though this looks pratically impossible to me stay with person who does not have fundamental beliefs same as you.
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and in between super girl , what is this thing about teeth.dost banana hai , kiss thode hi karna hai( could not resist asking)

Didn't I say that it was pet peeve? This is something that is unexplainable.... for me dental hygiene is very important, regardless of any warped questions you might ask.....

And yes, not to sound superficial, I do not want to project myself as believing in something, when I do not really find myself liking it....

Just as I am a cleanliness freak, so are my friends...

Hypocrisy is not my way of life.. I am guilty of thisin the sense that, I have control over choosing my friends, but not over my relatives... So my friends are neat freaks and some of my relatives are extremely dirty..

I hope that answers your question...

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thanks for yours reply
now i can relate your cleanliness drive with my IQ thing.
same here some relatives don;t have IQ man.
you know in some places i had to coin term called negative IQ in hostels
few people do remember that
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