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I have a Commerce degree with a Costing diploma. I work for a financial and accounting services company. There are girls in office. I have to communicate with some girls who are my co workers for work. |
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There is no harm in getting married - if you want more time then you need to speak to your parents about it.Tell them you want 3 more years of bachelor life.they will understand.
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and no , i go to movies on sundays nowadays--just look at my last two movie threads . somebody is deliberately creating a profile similar to mine to create trouble ![]()
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![]() I am reading all comments here.
My worry is I am having a good life. I know all marry at some time. I dont know what marry will mean so early. I cannot go in opposition of parents. My friends are bachelors. I have spoken to just one best friend. He is bachelor also. His family is not saying to marry right now. So no experience for him about marriage. Some reply here say to tell my parents I dont want to marry. I need to give proper reason why. My father is very strict person. He likes all to follow what he says. I have explained my worry now. |
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![]() My father is strict person. I am already working 3 years now in good job. After college and diploma I was doing articleship. Then got good job. Now father is feeling that I am right age to marry. I never thought of marry right now. I have no problem in marry someday. This is sudden requirement now from father. Mother cannot go against fathers wish.
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![]() I am only son. How I can move out of house. Who will look after parents. I dont have separate home. Cannot buy home in Mumbai. Very costly.
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Belkom worried miya. You are on you way to your bery phirst crown on EC. Amazing feat considering this was your phirst post ?
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Then get married. Your wife will look after parents. Problem solved!
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Okay lets assume you get married. Now from your replies, you dont have a girl in mind. So maybe your parents will look for an arranged match. And say you get married within some time. What is the problem? Today or tomorrow you will have to take the step. And to give explanation of why you dont want to marry now, you should have that reason ready first in your own head. Since you are into accounting, etc. you can create a balance sheet ![]() Write all the pros on the left column and cons on the right column. Make a comparison. You will have your answer. |
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Marriage is not just about you. It also has another being... usually called the wife (sometimes husband). I am sure you have given some thought to this other person... must have discussed with your friends... seen them in movies. Some people theorize they are from a different planet but that is not true. They are from here only. It is time to accept them and become part of them. You are old enough... else you will become as old as Ashudke pai... and believe me, that is very old. They make movies about being virgin at that age. Now, coming to the wife part. They are really not that bad. In fact, look at it this way... you, yes you, can make one woman in this world very happy. How do you choose a wife? Simple, you cannot make an already happy woman more happy... or all that more happy. So, look for the saddest woman that you can find. Usually poor women are sad... sometimes some women undergo tragedy... they are sad too. Then there are women who have lost everything at a young age... yes, they are usually sad too. Marry one such woman (you might also be able to marry up to 4 such women, check your religion)... and believe me you will bring joy back to her life. Marriage is not all bad.
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Sorry if I have touched a nerve here. But you are just an ID... please leave your emotions behind when you log on. In the quote above I was just referring to elderly unmarried people... did not mean anyone specific... just that your name was there right above.
If you still think I did something wrong let me know and I will say sorry.
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I can tell you what enjoyment I am having. I come from middle class family living in middle class area in Mumbai. Father is now retired from service. Mother is also retired. She took VRS long ago. My elder sister is marry and settled. Before I started job, I was only doing college and study. Now only from 3 years I am free to not study. So on Sunday I am free to go for dinner after movie. My college friends also have good job. So we can spend money for enjoyment. Life is going very normal now. I dont know why to complicate with marry. Father wants to get me marry to girl from same caste. I am okay because she will know our habits and culture. I see pictures and sometime want to have love story wedding but there is no girl in contact with me for such thing to happen. Can you give me good reason to push marriage ahead for some time? My friends cannot think of any good reason. They think my father will not accept any reason. I want good reason to make him understand. |
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