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Old December 5th, 2015, 04:44 AM
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Unhappy Dad was unhappy with marriage to mom.

There is some sad information. Very sad. My father was not happy with marriage to my mother. Father wrote letters to his mother (grandmother to me). My father had written something like this, “You have brought a girl of your choice as your daughter-in-law. You have not brought a girl of my liking. By marrying this girl my life has been ruined. Etcetera.” It was probably my father’s complaints and unhappiness which gave the idea of advising second marriage to my paternal uncle. It may not be the other way round.

I hardly need to tell that all this maybe just a tip of the iceberg.

And I thought marriage is made in heaven. Sorry to know that I may be wrong!

Some questions arise. Whose idea was second marriage? Dad’s or that of relatives? How far did dad or relatives go in that direction? Did dad or relatives contemplate divorce?

How did this marriage survive?
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Old December 5th, 2015, 05:24 PM
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There is some sad information. Very sad. My father was not happy with marriage to my mother. Father wrote letters to his mother (grandmother to me). My father had written something like this, “You have brought a girl of your choice as your daughter-in-law. You have not brought a girl of my liking. By marrying this girl my life has been ruined. Etcetera.” It was probably my father’s complaints and unhappiness which gave the idea of advising second marriage to my paternal uncle. It may not be the other way round.

I hardly need to tell that all this maybe just a tip of the iceberg.

And I thought marriage is made in heaven. Sorry to know that I may be wrong!

Some questions arise. Whose idea was second marriage? Dad’s or that of relatives? How far did dad or relatives go in that direction? Did dad or relatives contemplate divorce?

How did this marriage survive?
Which marriage? First or second?
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Old December 6th, 2015, 12:58 AM
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How did this marriage survive?
Maybe Mom was equally unhappy with the marriage. So 2 negatives made a positive

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Old December 6th, 2015, 07:01 AM
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Maybe Mom was equally unhappy with the marriage. So 2 negatives made a positive

Maybe mom was having affair with gardner.
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Old December 6th, 2015, 08:19 AM
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My sisters knew all along. I didn't come to know until he passed away.
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Maybe mom was having affair with gardner.
No yaar. Something worse.
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Old December 6th, 2015, 01:59 PM
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No yaar. Something worse.
Wait! Are you saying your mom is getting married to your paternal uncle?
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Wait! Are you saying your mom is getting married to your paternal uncle?
Extra-marital affairs tu chhod hi de. Usko tu jhel lega. Meri mom jo karti hai usko tu most probably nahi jhel payega.
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there is some sad information. Very sad. My father was not happy with marriage to my mother. Father wrote letters to his mother (grandmother to me). My father had written something like this, “you have brought a girl of your choice as your daughter-in-law. You have not brought a girl of my liking. By marrying this girl my life has been ruined. Etcetera.” it was probably my father’s complaints and unhappiness which gave the idea of advising second marriage to my paternal uncle. It may not be the other way round.

I hardly need to tell that all this maybe just a tip of the iceberg.

And i thought marriage is made in heaven. Sorry to know that i may be wrong!

Some questions arise. Whose idea was second marriage? Dad’s or that of relatives? How far did dad or relatives go in that direction? Did dad or relatives contemplate divorce?

How did this marriage survive?
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my sisters knew all along. I didn't come to know until he passed away.

कोई हमदम ना रहा, कोई सहारा ना रहा हम किसी के ना रहे, कोई हमारा ना रहा

शाम तनहाई की है, आयेगी मंज़िल कैसे जो मुझे राह दिखाए, वही तारा ना रहा

ऐ नज़ारों ना हँसो मिल ना सकूँगा तुमसे वो मेरे हो न सके मैं भी तुम्हारा ना रहा

क्या बताऊँ मैं कहाँ यूँ ही चला जाता हूँ जो मुझे फिर से बुला ले, वो इशारा ना रहा

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Old December 7th, 2015, 05:34 AM
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Extra-marital affairs tu chhod hi de. Usko tu jhel lega. Meri mom jo karti hai usko tu most probably nahi jhel payega.
Hmm .. I'm curious now. Tere mom ne aisa kya kiya hoga??! Tell me.
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Old December 9th, 2015, 09:23 AM
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The light has gone out of our lives and there is darkness everywhere. I do not know what to tell and how to say it.
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The light has gone out of our lives and there is darkness everywhere. I do not know what to tell and how to say it.
Maybe try paying the electricity bill?
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Maybe try paying the electricity bill?


Why don't you help him by getting his parents divorce.

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