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Old December 6th, 2015, 10:36 PM
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Unhappy What is my momís problem? Hoards junk & keeps house untidy, cluttered and shabby.

An unacquainted reader may think, ďThis is not a big issue. Reasoning, explaining and convincing will solve the matter.Ē But actually the problem is not so simple. Had it been so easy it wouldnít have been a problem in the first place.

Mom seriously believes her doings are normal. She doesnít have the sense to understand. She is adamant. If we try to change her she quarrels like anything.

1. Not using dustbin even when dustbin is available at home. Nor does Mom allow us to use it. Instead she puts all the dirt in two or three polythene bags. The dirt may spill outside while putting. Even without spilling the polythene bags itself look like garbage. If we try to use dustbin, Mom scolds and prohibits.

2. Not using door mat. Instead Mom uses two-three old clothes for wiping feet. It looks disgusting.

3. Putting dozen old invitation cards (received during otherís weddings and Gruhapraveshas) to cover windows despite putting curtain. If I try to remove it she tells it is to cover the transparent glass.

4. In one window instead of using curtain, Mom has put old saree and bedsheet by using clips to cover window. It looks disgusting.

5. Saving old milk packets for years to earn a negligible amount of money. Instead of hiding the bag in which it is saved, it is kept on outer side of window. It is visible directly to eyes while climbing stairs.

6. Not disposing off old cartons of soap. Mom believes that tons of cartons of soap keep away mosquitoes. If I try to throw it away, Mom scolds.

7. Keeping many objects on floor instead of creating proper space for it. Two or three items are okay. But here there are about dozen of them. Onion basket, flour sack, even empty containers having nothing but jute sack etc.

8. Saving too many of polythene covers that come with products like flour sack and keeping it strewn around the house.

9. Not throwing away old metal scrap like old stove, old worn out cot, old steel rack etc. Nor does Mom allow us to dispose them. She tells it can be repaired and re-used.

10. Saving mango seeds after consuming the pulp. Using medicine strips in addition to scrubber for washing utensils.

11. Scavenging useless items while going out for a stroll in a park. It may be things like the smooth fine stones found on sea shore or in construction sand (what is it called?), or some shapely but worn-out wooden objects etc.

I may write more in the space for subsequent posts.
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Reserving space for more info.
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Re: What is my momís problem? Hoards junk & keeps house untidy, cluttered and shabby.

I may type something here.
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Old December 7th, 2015, 02:18 AM
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Re: What is my momís problem? Hoards junk & keeps house untidy, cluttered and shabby.

I think I will have to give you a thread "My Family Problems" and merge all your threads there.
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Old December 7th, 2015, 05:36 AM
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I think I will have to give you a thread "My Family Problems" and merge all your threads there.
No dont'.. this is good thread. Please keep this one open.
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Re: What is my momís problem? Hoards junk & keeps house untidy, cluttered and shabby.

Pakau Pai, I let my imagination run wild for your other thread. Now, don't tell me this is what you find worse than extra marital affairs.
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Old December 7th, 2015, 06:39 AM
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Pakau Pai, I let my imagination run wild for your other thread. Now, don't tell me this is what you find worse than extra marital affairs.
You echo my thoughts.
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Old December 7th, 2015, 07:31 AM
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Pakau Pai, I let my imagination run wild for your other thread. Now, don't tell me this is what you find worse than extra marital affairs.
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Old December 7th, 2015, 08:22 AM
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Experience is a harsh teacher but a fool would learn from no other.
You know, you are right. I think you are being serious.

So basically, your mom is hoarding filth and somehow obsessed with it. Let me ask a few questions just to get perspective.

- What is your financial status? Are you guys wealthy? Poor? lower middle class?
- Do you guys live in a nice neighborhood or slums?
- Does your mother come from poverty?

Why is she hoarding this stuff? She seems to have some pyschological / psychiatric issues.
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I may type something here.
that is style of writing of one member here, they always open movie review thread with such comments. However, they may be waiting for pirated cam copy on internet, so finally no review is provided.
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Old December 7th, 2015, 12:48 PM
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that is style of writing of one member here, they always open movie review thread with such comments. However, they may be waiting for pirated cam copy on internet, so finally no review is provided.
Excuuuse me! I do provide review if the movie is worthy of my review. I don't review every al-fal movie.
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that is style of writing of one member here, they always open movie review thread with such comments. However, they may be waiting for pirated cam copy on internet, so finally no review is provided.
So you are saying, he is talking to himself in this thread Sounds about right
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My second sisterís childhood was ruined by abnormally excessive beatings by mom. Mom would be angry on others but she would take it out on my poor sister. I wouldnít wish such mom to my enemy. Beating children so much is insane. My first sister was spared because she was brought up in maternal grandmotherís home. Even I was saved. I was saved either because second sister was a buffer or the family situation had improved.

My poor sister. God bless her. I donít know how she endured all that torture.
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My second sisterís childhood was ruined by abnormally excessive beatings by mom. Mom would be angry on others but she would take it out on my poor sister. I wouldnít wish such mom to my enemy. Beating children so much is insane. My first sister was spared because she was brought up in maternal grandmotherís home. Even I was saved. I was saved either because second sister was a buffer or the family situation had improved.

My poor sister. God bless her. I donít know how she endured all that torture.
Sounds like your mom needs psychiatric help.
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My second sisterís childhood was ruined by abnormally excessive beatings by mom. Mom would be angry on others but she would take it out on my poor sister. I wouldnít wish such mom to my enemy. Beating children so much is insane. My first sister was spared because she was brought up in maternal grandmotherís home. Even I was saved. I was saved either because second sister was a buffer or the family situation had improved.

My poor sister. God bless her. I donít know how she endured all that torture.
Ironically this Didi is the person who loves mom the most in this world.
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