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Old May 18th, 2011, 02:12 PM
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worried shaadi karke phas jayega yar , mat kud is jhanjal mein .
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Old May 18th, 2011, 02:28 PM
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That was exactly what I was doing . helping him . But you seemed to think otherwise . Why is that so? Was there anything wrong with how I approached his situation? This may have happened with you I guess , since you are very confident of your analysis of his personality . You are almost emphatisizing with him .
Chandni tai,

I am a Maharashtrian and have grown up in Mumbai. I have seen families of the type this fellow hails from. Was recounting my observations, thats all. Where do I come into the picture now vis-a-vis marriage experinces?
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Old May 18th, 2011, 03:04 PM
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dolly tai, kuch accha advise chipka do .. from a girl's point of view. I mean he will now go to see girls. In Marathi they call this as a 'Kandey Pohey' program Usually if the girl likes the boy, then they serve Kandey Pohey or else just tea and biscuits At least thats what is practiced in Pune and certain other sections of Maharashtra
Don't they use potatoes in Maharashtra? In Gujarat, it is Bataka Pau.nva....meaning Aloo Pohey
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worried shaadi karke phas jayega yar , mat kud is jhanjal mein .
marriage is insurance....you gotta pay the premium once you sign up for it...and the worst part is Murphy's law...only when you stop paying premium your life breaks down and you don't have insurance and you lost all the premium time & money
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Old May 18th, 2011, 06:06 PM
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worried shaadi karke phas jayega yar , mat kud is jhanjal mein .
That would deprive him of warm hugs and stimulating conversations and assorted other marital goodies.
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Old May 18th, 2011, 07:47 PM
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Do not waste your time with him Rakhi . He is going to do whatever his father will say . He is a wimp . Pretty annoyed
I am not scared of father. I respect him. So I cannot talk back. I am asking help here to handle this situation.
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I am not scared of father. I respect him. So I cannot talk back. I am asking help here to handle this situation.
pls dont listen to ladies. they will 1st chadhaofy u on chaney ka jhaad and once u r up there, u r left hanging. nothing wrong with respecting ur father. marriage worries all men. 1st time do-badan-ka-milan also. but dont worry. its natural. get married if u r the right age and situation. things normalize.
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Old May 18th, 2011, 08:11 PM
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pls dont listen to ladies. they will 1st chadhaofy u on chaney ka jhaad and once u r up there, u r left hanging. nothing wrong with respecting ur father. marriage worries all men. 1st time do-badan-ka-milan also. but dont worry. its natural. get married if u r the right age and situation. things normalize.
Thanks for support words. I have to go for office now. I will check from there.
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What I will ask girl?
No. That will be a mistake. You stay out of negotiations. Let parents talk. We have dowry calculator if you don't know your worth? I am worth 1 crore. You like I give you link? You print out the results and attach with your photos, give to Vivah Mandlum so they find you right parents.

Let me give you best advise ... forget girl ... talk to girl's mother ... bring mother to movies ... bring mother to restaurants ... spend as much time as you can with girl's mother. I will tell you why. You liking girl's mother is more important, because in 20 or 30 years, girl is going to grow mustache and look and act like just like her mother. So if you don't like her mother now ... how you going to like daughter in 40 years? Your wedding will be waste of Brahmin's time.
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Old May 18th, 2011, 11:42 PM
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I am back to check reply. I have more tension now. My mother just called. I am in office. I have to go little early home in evening. Thank you for your reply. I will try to think of some reason to delay marriage. Thank you.
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tell your parents you need to buy a small house of your own and a car maybe...before you get married,for it you will need atleast 3 years more.

if you say that you respect your dad and cant talk to him about it,then respect his wishes too..and get married.everything in life happens for the first time...you will adapt yourself well to the evolution in your life.
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No. That will be a mistake. You stay out of negotiations. Let parents talk. We have dowry calculator if you don't know your worth? I am worth 1 crore. You like I give you link? You print out the results and attach with your photos, give to Vivah Mandlum so they find you right parents.

Let me give you best advise ... forget girl ... talk to girl's mother ... bring mother to movies ... bring mother to restaurants ... spend as much time as you can with girl's mother. I will tell you why. You liking girl's mother is more important, because in 20 or 30 years, girl is going to grow mustache and look and act like just like her mother. So if you don't like her mother now ... how you going to like daughter in 40 years? Your wedding will be waste of Brahmin's time.
i wld be interested in knowing what advise u wld give a worried girl !
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I am back to check reply. I have more tension now. My mother just called. I am in office. I have to go little early home in evening. Thank you for your reply. I will try to think of some reason to delay marriage. Thank you.
I don't understand what your problem is with marriage. I think you have to change your dekhne ka nazariya. Why do you think that after marriage you will lose all your freedom... your friends... your sunday movies Do you think your wife will be a dragon or a prison-warden and stop you from doing all these

Change your point of view. Think of your wife as your bestest friend. You can take her along to your sunday movies... to your friday drink-parties... and your saturday dances. Nothing wrong. In fact look at the positive factors,

1. You will have a ready friend for everything.
2. You will be the pride of your existing friends
3. You with your friends will not just be another of those all-guys group
4. And if you get married before your bachelor friends then you will have lots of friends to help you with your marriage.

That last point is very important. For some unknown reason married men do not help out at friends' weddings. They think they are too important... or that the groom is a loser. Believe me, this is true
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I am back to check reply. I have more tension now. My mother just called. I am in office. I have to go little early home in evening. Thank you for your reply. I will try to think of some reason to delay marriage. Thank you.
I went home early in evening. Now situation is very bad. A man from vivah mandal had come. He had some bio data of girls who are register there. He has kept them home. My parents want me to take look. They say that we will go see proposals we like.

Now I cannot get out of situation. Thanks for advise. I will tell about waiting for promotion in office and my own car to my father. I hope I can delay.
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I went home early in evening. Now situation is very bad. A man from vivah mandal had come. He had some bio data of girls who are register there. He has kept them home. My parents want me to take look. They say that we will go see proposals we like.

Now I cannot get out of situation. Thanks for advise. I will tell about waiting for promotion in office and my own car to my father. I hope I can delay.


I have an idea
Get engaged now n get married after 3 years ... wot say?
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