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View Poll Results: Are good looking women better in bed?
Yes, of course !! Good looks == Good performance 11 45.83%
Doesn't matter 3 12.50%
No. Average or below average looks == Better performance 6 25.00%
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Old July 19th, 2010, 08:41 PM
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Are beautiful women better in bed?

Going through this thread by Viking, I got to thinking : Is beautiful better ? Better to look at, of course, but what else? Better at managing families? Better in bed? What does a man want from a woman? Feed him, fuck him and take care of the family. Can beauty ensure this?

Again, as the saying goes, "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder". I am sure the perception changes over time too. Also, beauty doesn't mean a good figure

Back to topic. Considering bedroom performance, in my experience, once in bed, a woman's beauty hardly matters unless it is at the extremes of beauty or ugliness. Anyway, one can always cover the face and fire base, right Also, the women who know that they aren't too good looking work harder at pleasing the man.


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Re: Are beautiful women better in bed?

If you can think of your wife as

Priyanka Chopra (evening)
Gul Panag (late night)
Sonali Bendre (morning)
Shilpa Shirodkar (noon)
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You get the picture??
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Re: Are beautiful women better in bed?

I recall something mentioned by Chanakya (no references available)

" An ideal wife should be :
Like a mother in the morning
Like a sister during the day
Like a friend in the evening, and
Like a prostitute at night!"
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I am sorry ... cant help you cause one will have to have slept with an ugly woman to know the difference.

Beautiful women want handsome hulks like me ... you will never know nor understand. I am sorry again.
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I recall something mentioned by Chanakya (no references available)

" An ideal wife should be :
Like a mother in the morning
Like a sister during the day
Like a friend in the evening, and
Like a prostitute at night!"
my medical college professor ( who was a sexologist )used to say--

a woman should be a good hostess in the living room ......

a good cook in the kitchen......

and a WANTON WHORE in bed
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Re: Are beautiful women better in bed?

Yes!

I am assuming a educated and city-living girl here.

Reason

1. They are more confident about their loooks and sexuality
2. Their partners are more ready to experiement
3. They can carry lingerie well
4. They can be more seductive than their ugly counterparts
5. They take care of their body well (well mostly as hygeine etc are personal issues)

In any case, a union between two average-looking individual can also produce same result because here we have two-confident-ugly-couple (look into majority of 'self-shot' indian porno videos).....the moment woman in less beautiful compared to her man...confidence and performance issues start coming up....other way is perfectly alright.

Its all about confidence and (mostly) beautiful women are (or appear to be) more confident thantheir ugly counterparts who almost always need constatnt re-assurances about their looks etc. No matter how much confidence ugly women oozes out...somewhere inside............................and it mostly reflects in bedroom performance and other places where they are judged alongside beautiful women
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Re: Are beautiful women better in bed?

But being confident about one's own performance doesn't necessarily ensure more pleasure for the partner. My point here is whether they are better / more pleasurable for the male. IMO, the lesser good looking girls work harder for the partner's pleasure and are more sensitive to his needs.
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IMO, the lesser good looking girls work harder for the partner's pleasure and are more sensitive to his needs.


Yep there is a theory which states that one should marry a less-beautiful woman for she will continue to treat the man as god for the simple fact that he decided to marry a ugly woman.

2 years after marriage and every woman in this world is same afa basic and infamous woman behaviour is concerned. As i said above, I am assuming an educated and city-girl here. If the woman is dependent on guy for any of her needs (financial, emotional, green-card/citizenship) then sub-consciously she knows how to manipulate. But yes, what you say may be partially correct. There is no dearth of 'average-looking' Indian women who think their husbands did a great 'ehsaan' on them when approving them for marriage. Give them power and make them feel 'hot' in office and see what their husbands get for lunch in their 'dabbas' (usually last nigh'ts leftovers compared to 2 sabji-dal-parathe-jeera rice before)

Its all about confidence....
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A too confident person is more likely to be more self-absorbed. When I say "better performance", I don't mean how it looks, but how it feels for the partner. So, in toto, a better-performing partner is one who takes equal of the partner's needs & desires. A self-absorbed person is hardly likely to measure up to that.
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A too confident person is more likely to be more self-absorbed. When I say "better performance", I don't mean how it looks, but how it feels for the partner. So, in toto, a better-performing partner is one who takes equal of the partner's needs & desires. A self-absorbed person is hardly likely to measure up to that.

Sorry for straying from topic in last two posts.

Thing is RR pai, these all are excuses that mostly-ugly-indians have formulated as a feel-good factor. First we need to know what self-absorbed stuff means? Thinking about own pleasure before the other person. Now for some women, fellatio is a turn ON. So aren't they doing nice things to their men. For (say ) confident beautiful woman, some kinda kink is all good. Again beneficial to partner! There are only few positions (say woman-on-top) where woman is in charge of her pleasure, but then its a treat to watch a woman who knows her 'woman-on-top' moves right! There is nothing like self-absorption for woman because if selfish-fun is what they seek- MISSIONARY is what they get ....before that pampering her a few times is even pleasurable for men

Strictly speaking about bedroom, mark my words- a few years into marriage and things are mostly missionary with pleasure (allegedly) belonging only to men. Beautiful or ugly, when a man is used to her woman- nothing matters to him than missionary and when a woman is used to her man- nothing matters to her than her motherhood and daily chores!

A beautiful confident woman on bed who knows the tricks upteen times better than her ugly counterpart. Ugly women, as I have told above, always have inhibitions and low-self-esteem acquired from their childhood right to the day get married and beyond that to workplace and social-circle. May not be conscious but sub-consciously. No exceptions to that rule.

P.S- sorry for doing ugly women blabla....its just for discussion sake.
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Back to topic. Considering bedroom performance, in my experience, once in bed, a woman's beauty hardly matters unless it is at the extremes of beauty or ugliness. Anyway, one can always cover the face and fire base, right Also, the women who know that they aren't too good looking work harder at pleasing the man.
I don't think performance has got anything to do with looks. Its got to do with how comfortable you are with your partner. Even the not-so-good-looking-women perform well under favorable circumstances. A lot depends on how well the partner communicates and encourages her in bed.
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on how well the partner communicates and encourages her in bed.
True that!!

But RRpai, there is difference in encouragement stuff. A average looking woman needs to be reassured about her beauty first to try pleasurable stuff later but one can skip that 'prolonged-online-offline re-assurances' in case of beautiful woman. Time to achieve desirable results because of same aso varies. As you said, average woman will work hard but it will take mammoth time to clean-up her memory which has all kinds of thorns in it right from childhood to that very moment. Pretty difficult.....

In any case, truly speaking no woman is beautiful in her own eyes. Go deep into their psyche and even the most beautiful women have some inhibitions/fears or the other afa their looks are concerned. Women- yep they are complicated
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True that!!

But RRpai, there is difference in encouragement stuff. A average looking woman needs to be reassured about her beauty first to try pleasurable stuff later but one can skip that 'prolonged-online-offline re-assurances' in case of beautiful woman. Time to achieve desirable results because of same aso varies. As you said, average woman will work hard but it will take mammoth time to clean-up her memory which has all kinds of thorns in it right from childhood to that very moment. Pretty difficult.....

In any case, truly speaking no woman is beautiful in her own eyes. Go deep into their psyche and even the most beautiful women have some inhibitions/fears or the other afa their looks are concerned. Women- yep they are complicated
I dont think its correct Sprite. Even pretty women need lots of reassurances in bed, especially if you are looking at a few positions like women on top.
I think you are contradicting the bold ones with regular in green.
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I dont think its correct Sprite. Even pretty women need lots of reassurances in bed, especially if you are looking at a few positions like women on top.
I think you are contradicting the bold ones with regular in green.

Pay more attention to what I wrote in the end- No woman is beautiful in her own eyes. Having said that, its easy to train or re-assure a beautiful woman. Atleast I think so with my limited knowledge, experience and intelligence.

Every woman needs re-assurance when it comes to sex because they have this fear that their men want it all good from the word go and its their skills which is depriving men of their pleasures. etc etc. This is where sexually liberated women comes in. In Indian context, (mostly) women get their training after they get married. Takes time for average women to shed their inhibitions compared to their beautiful counterpart when subjected to same training methodology. More confident a girl is about her looks and body, easier it is to teach her moves. Now if somehow an average woman is confident (love marriage or other incidental variables), she will be all good. But for an average woman who needs to be taught everything, a beautiful one would always be more responsive and quick to deliver results. Ofcourse my assumptions.

Heck, we should have discussed it a decade back. Where are our young and naujawaan echarchans who can experiment and tell old rags like us whether beautiful women are indeed better in bed compared to average ones. Jai, chits, sunny, ramesh, babu, milano.....????
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Pay more attention to what I wrote in the end- No woman is beautiful in her own eyes. Having said that, its easy to train or re-assure a beautiful woman. Atleast I think so with my limited knowledge, experience and intelligence.

Every woman needs re-assurance when it comes to sex because they have this fear that their men want it all good from the word go and its their skills which is depriving men of their pleasures. etc etc. This is where sexually liberated women comes in. In Indian context, (mostly) women get their training after they get married. Takes time for average women to shed their inhibitions compared to their beautiful counterpart when subjected to same training methodology. More confident a girl is about her looks and body, easier it is to teach her moves. Now if somehow an average woman is confident (love marriage or other incidental variables), she will be all good. But for an average woman who needs to be taught everything, a beautiful one would always be more responsive and quick to deliver results. Ofcourse my assumptions.

Heck, we should have discussed it a decade back. Where are our young and naujawaan echarchans who can experiment and tell old rags like us whether beautiful women are indeed better in bed compared to average ones. Jai, chits, sunny, ramesh, babu, milano.....????
They all are in monogamous relationship with their gf, ironically their gfs share a common name
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