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Old January 27th, 2010, 06:27 AM
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Attention please!

Folks,

Please give some honest serious advice here.

The law & order situation in this country is pathetic.The law applies only to the weak, powerful people can get away with anything. Rakshak is become Bhakshak. Police ki bhi fati rehti hai.

I got a taste of it sometime back. Some gunda kind of person kinda threatened me.

Now I am not someone who worries too much about consequences but now thoughts of dependants crosses my mind & it has like crippled me. This guy is a dalal/middleman who has had brushes with the law. He unnecessarily meddles with our affairs and my silence has bolstered his confidence. The indecisiveness is fkcing up my mind.

Cant get is solved thru legal authorities, the system sucks.

I can kick his ass and face whatever happens but like I said, thought about my family crosses my mind every single time. I am like torn into two worlds. The bastard has a children of his own but such people give a damn about it.

He is not gutsy kind of person but his talent lies in meddling in others affairs, changing colors instantaneously, licking asses of those above him, showing off, exploiting poor illiterate people - if you know how complicated these dalals are.

He actually said what he said only to see my reaction, which I did not give. If I had just exchanged few blows with him then and there it would have ended I feel.

The more I try to run away from it, the more it gets on to me. Just imagine yourself in my shoes. You can come across people like this yourself.

Kya karein? Kuch batao. honestly. Something needs to be done.

Thanks for your thoughts.
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Old January 27th, 2010, 06:37 AM
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Re: Attention please!

that guy has the law in his pocket ,eh ........i mean the police are not gonna help ?
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Old January 27th, 2010, 06:39 AM
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fight back!!
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Old January 27th, 2010, 06:49 AM
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Re: Attention please!

I am afraid of just such a situation many times. First practical thing is to get an insurance. Try to cover backside as much as possible. Is there anyone above him that you can approach? Any 'pehchan' with police that you can leverage? Any change in your affairs that make the meddling difficult/impossible?
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Old January 27th, 2010, 07:05 AM
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that guy has the law in his pocket ,eh ........
not exactly. but police is so bad that they dont even file a complaint without sufficient reason or bribe. police force is become force of napunsaks. asking for their help is considered weakness.

plus i dont know what should i complain about, that such & such person said "merese panga mat liyo, mehenga padega" or that he is meddling in my affairs?

its personal. legal authorities are a bastard community.
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Old January 27th, 2010, 07:12 AM
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A/S/L ?

A and L will do....
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Old January 27th, 2010, 07:13 AM
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I am afraid of just such a situation many times. First practical thing is to get an insurance. Try to cover backside as much as possible.
r u talking about money/security thru insurance for my dependants just in case? i am taking u seriously, so pls be serious. i have that almost covered.

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Is there anyone above him that you can approach? Any 'pehchan' with police that you can leverage? Any change in your affairs that make the meddling difficult/impossible?
ye sab try kar raha hoon but he is a dallal, almost everywhere he has done his ass-licking sweet talk. he can do it anytime anywhere. usko ek do baar gali bhi diya pehchan walon ne. but he wants something nice directly from me i think. he keeps BSing behind the back given a chance.
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Re: Attention please!

Anonymous, how is he getting involved with you? I mean, is he your business partner? Do you owe him anything?
Depending on your answer there are ways to deal with this.
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Old January 27th, 2010, 07:21 AM
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r u talking about money/security thru insurance for my dependants just in case? i am taking u seriously, so pls be serious. i have that almost covered.


ye sab try kar raha hoon but he is a dallal, almost everywhere he has done his ass-licking sweet talk. he can do it anytime anywhere. usko ek do baar gali bhi diya pehchan walon ne. but he wants something nice directly from me i think. he keeps BSing behind the back given a chance.
dekh bhai anon, I can help you out with this. He will get a nice kick on his butts by police people no matter where he resides in India or what contacts hez got. Gimme details...
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Old January 27th, 2010, 07:26 AM
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r u talking about money/security thru insurance for my dependants just in case? i am taking u seriously, so pls be serious. i have that almost covered.
Yes I am really serious. Pura reply dekh ke laga ki mai majak kar raha hoon? I did not mean only for dependants, even for yourself - something like mediclaim/term insurance with riders.

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ye sab try kar raha hoon but he is a dallal, almost everywhere he has done his ass-licking sweet talk. he can do it anytime anywhere. usko ek do baar gali bhi diya pehchan walon ne. but he wants something nice directly from me i think. he keeps BSing behind the back given a chance.
What is the worst that can happen? When you say he is a dalla, is he a money types ka dalla aur ra**i type ka dalla?
Did you try gandhi-giri with him? - again I am serious.
you seem to be thinking about dand (and I asked you about bhed) out of sam-dam-dand-bhed. Maybe we are doing it in a reverse way, did you try sam and/or dam? What is it that he is getting out of the meddling? Is there any other way you can given it to him?
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dekh bhai anon, I can help you out with this. He will get a nice kick on his butts by police people no matter where he resides in India or what contacts hez got. Gimme details...
thank you sire. I am sending you a PM.
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Old January 27th, 2010, 07:29 AM
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thank you sire. I am sending you a PM.
don't..its switched off......send me an email instead. check your control panel (repps) for my email ID
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Old January 27th, 2010, 07:33 AM
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don't..its switched off......send me an email instead. check your control panel (repps) for my email ID
ok. i just tried sending PM and it failed. email follows.
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ok. i just tried sending PM and it failed. email follows.
send mail instead. I have just sent you my email ID
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Good luck Anon.
May that asshole find it difficult to go to shit for the next decade!
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