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![]() Here is one helpful tip for newcomers and long time members alike.
If someone writes something and you feel offended, please IGNORE it. Unless a member is continually stalking you and making personal attacks, we cannot and will not do anything. You come here as a digital identity and not a real person. I mean, if you get easily offended then you are on the wrong forum. I have said this before and I will say it again - Log off your personal ego, emotions, personality and then login here. I had to start this topic because I see a pattern where people get offended or offend others and then everyone creates a hue and cry and keeps asking me to intervene. I cannot do it always, though I try my best. If someone wants to go away because of feeling offended - GO AWAY!! DONT BOTHER ME!! If someone was not consoled or I was unable to take their sides - STOP BOTHERING ME!! I REFUSE TO WET NURSE EVERY EGO!!! If people want to vent and fume and abuse and use foul language - It might be okay once in a while, but otherwise take your medications and GO AWAY till they take effect and you are back as a normal person. DO NOT BOTHER ME!!! eCharcha.Com is a free website, costing me 145 dollars a month to host on a dedicated server. I make no money from this site. Whatever donations I get and whatever commissions I get from Amazon are not enough beyond a 3 to 4 months worth of hosting fees and vBulletin licensing fees. I make nothing, I dont charge anything - so I dont owe anybody any kind of service!! eCharcha.Com is for fun and pass time. I too want to enjoy it. I am not here to keep on wet nursing folks and mediating fights. Sorry to sound harsh, but this has to stop!! Thank you for your understanding and cooperation, in advance! - Sunit |
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
1) Log off your emotions, ego, whims, fancies, whatever and then log in to echarcha
2) You maybe be a 20 year old man/woman or a 100 years old man/woman. Please do not expect special treatment just because you are a young boy/girl or a great grandfather/grandmother. 3) If you are in a bad mood and vent out, then its fine once in a while. Please note, once in a while does not mean every week! 4) Do not stalk/attack/berate members just for the heck of it. If you dont like a user, then criticise but be prepared to accept the criticism and harsh words that member will return. DONT FUCKING BE A WUSS.. Wyaah Wyaah Wyaaah. 5) eCharcha.Com is not your real life. Its a digital medium for time-pass. Grow up and get a life. eCharcha.Com will not go away or die or thrive because you have intricately tied your life around it. Do not think of all members here are your own family members or friends. Some may be nice enough to treat you as one, but dont expect same from everybody. 6) Point 5 brings up this one - Do not mention your wife/husband/mother/father/dog/cat/neighbour/janitor/maid/driver/whoever here in any context if you are not willing to take all kinds of comments about them. If you bring someone from your real life into a discussion here, then dont be fucking surprised if someone passes a harsh comment. I try to limit folks from dragging personal matters and making personal attacks. But now, I am bored of doing it over and over again. You are forewarned, so dont you tell me you were hurt - Too bad, I cannot help it if you are hurt 7) This is a Website which caters to all sorts of folks. Do not expect a rosy, goodie goodie, nice nice, sugary sweet atmosphere here like some other gay sites. We are not harsh and rough just for the heck of it, and we do treat members with respect; but only upto a certain point. After that its pretty much 'Each one for himself and God for all' 8) Stop boring and flooding the boards with - I am offended so I am leaving, Where is so and so, Why so and so is a this and that. FUCK YOU!! I absolutely refuse to get interested in who quit and why!! I used to care earlier, but of late this method of emotional blackmail has stopped working. You want to leave, then in the words of our member smellyfinger - 'Dont let the door hit your fat ass on your way out'. Yeah. Go.. Dont bother me or bother members. I am bored and tired of members ganging up on one member or a new member bashing old timers. Stop this incredibly stupid activity. It is not even worth a minute's time of reading. Hope you can follow these simple rules ![]() |
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So Lovey, if you go, like you disappear for periods of time, then dont let the echarcha door hit your rear! ![]() |
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
It means 'don't let the door hit you where good lord split you'.
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![]() You been back here for some time now ... doing what you do best ... had feeling. Care to pm ... not which ... just the number?
![]() Couldn't possibly be like good old days when you were young and fertile or is it still the same old you.
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Stupid Opinions ... All Mine ... worth 2 cents ... you can have for FREE. Jamke Dushmani Karo Humse ... Magar Bas Itni Gunjaesh Hai Aapse Kal Agar Hum Dost Ban Jaayen ... To Sharminda Na Ho! LLKC ... pure and unadulterated ... LLKC! दूर से देखने पर तो यही लगता था ... 'वाह! वहाँ क्या मजा होता होगा!' बुरे फसें 'मजाल', आ कर जन्नत में ... हमने तो सोचा था, कुछ नया होता होगा! |
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
Pick your balls up and go elsewhere.
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
It means - If you leave the house and walk out, then dont let the swinging door of the house hit you on your ass.
Chaa Saab , yeh toh aapne Vohi baat doosre angrezi kay shabdon may keh dee.Itna toh mai samajh hee gayaa thaa kee , Jaa rahe ho toh jaao but is baat kee koshish karo kee ghar say bahaar nikalte waqt , us ghar ka Hilta darwaza ( andar bahaar swing hota hua a la hindi philmo kay Police station jaisa , tumhaare Chuttar par peechay say chaanta naa lagaa day ) . BHai mai ek moti Jaat buddhi hoon ( 16 dooni 8 waala ) , isliye baat kee gehraai abhi bhee nahin samajh paa rahaa hoon , isliye fir poochtaa hoon kii kyaa mutlab hua Ungli baba kay muhavray kaa .Jo mai abhi tak samjha hoon voh yeh hai ki House = Ghar = echarcha site with echarchans Darwazaa Gaand pay lagnaa = If you want to leave echarcha for any reason(s) then please do so silently without trying to make a pomp and show of it in the disguise of a leaving cause notice , trying to gain attention for your departure and in an attempt to indirectly making an appeal to some echarchans to cajol and coax you not to leave .Because if you do so , chances are that there might be a brigade of echarchans who wouldn't miss the opportunity to screw you for again more vengeantly / vehemently for the so called last time and thus making your departure unpleasantly memorable to you . Bus mujhe yeh bataa do , ki kyaa yahee mutlab huaa is baat ka jo maine samjhaa , ki kuch aur hai Daryaa kee gehraai ? So Lovey, if you go, like you disappear for periods of time, then dont let the echarcha door hit your rear! ![]() Bhai auro kaa pataa nahin , apnaa keh saktaa hoon , kee in keeping with true Narci antics , mai toh jub bhee jaayungaa full band baajay kay saath jaaunga and jub bhee aayungaa khoob dhoom dhaRaakay kay saath aayunga , ab chaahe jaane may darwaaja gaand pay lagay chaahe aanay may tatto pay ....hum toh hain aisay , bhai aisay rahengay ....( song hai ek ) ![]() You been back here for some time now ... Was never away , if not participating actively , use to keep a chor nigaah on to whats going on ...a la a car driver who always keeps a chor nigaah on the real view mirror while driving forward. Had to lurk , so as not to lose the touch with the latest chutyagiri doing what you do best ... I am glad I havent let down your expectations and have lived upto them...Thank you , I with full humility accept thy compliment ... had feeling. YEp feelings and voh bhee VIP Cotton Panties waali ....ekdum special. As regards my feelings for echarcha they are what they were and they would be what they were on the first day when the site started and I was amongst the first few person who registered and started paricipating actively...Feelings kaa ab mai kya kahun , control nahin hotaa but 16 aanay kharii baat kehtaa hoon , kee feelings kay taraazu may jub bhee aap apne say humko tolaogay , toh hameshaa palRa humhaara humhaaree feelings kay vajan kay kaaran , humhaaree ore jhujaa huaa paayoge , fir chaahe hum kitne hee arsay kay liye yahaan say nadaarad rahein.As i have said earlier also several times , it's just because I consider echarcha.com as my whole sole personal property ( with no partner ship ) with me being the propreitor.period.[/color] Care to pm ... not which ... just the number? Zaroor PM kar doonga Hukum , kissee ko karoon yeah naa karoon , aap ko zaroor karunga , because , ek Baais- tayis saal ki Khoobsoorat jawaan laRki ( Haryana may Atlas cycle waalay Kapoor Saab ki ) ko aapse koi khatraa nahin hai because I know kee aap ko pachpan ki umr may khaRay hokar mootne kay liye aadhi goli Viagra kee khaanee paRti hai taaki pishaab chappal pay naa gir jaaye ![]() Couldn't possibly be like good old days when you were young and fertile or is it still the same old you. Trust me , I am as I was and would be as I am ...18 till I die ...the same Naughty , Notorious , Natty Narci ... |
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
Raana Saab , or was it my number you were asking for ...( I don't think so , mere number kaa aap kyaa karoge , mai toh aapse do genration chotaa hoon )
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Re: I feel offended by a member's post. What should I do?
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![]() I am having problem with your recent posts ... cant follow ... on good days I still can Hindi, Gujarati, Marathi, or local dialects from back home ... only on good days ... have lost fluency ... no fluidity. I don't have problems with English ... am not claiming that. ![]() Honest ... I haven't been able to follow any more than few words of your recent participation. I do try ... give up out of frustration.
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Stupid Opinions ... All Mine ... worth 2 cents ... you can have for FREE. Jamke Dushmani Karo Humse ... Magar Bas Itni Gunjaesh Hai Aapse Kal Agar Hum Dost Ban Jaayen ... To Sharminda Na Ho! LLKC ... pure and unadulterated ... LLKC! दूर से देखने पर तो यही लगता था ... 'वाह! वहाँ क्या मजा होता होगा!' बुरे फसें 'मजाल', आ कर जन्नत में ... हमने तो सोचा था, कुछ नया होता होगा! |
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