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Lightbulb What is the main reason for rape ?

Why rape ? Who is responsible for that ?



Do you think the dressing is a reason for rape ? Be honest any men here felt to rape any woman ? (I mean sex without her consent ).

I don't think dressing style of woman makes men to arouse, I heard some saying woman has to stop wearing sexy dress ,that makes men to rape them, i think it is not true, an real men ll not rape an women even he see a
nude woman, yes he may desire to have sex but not rape,
I want to know your view towards rape and what punishment should be given to
them.

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Re: What is the main reason for rape ?

Budmassji ... compliments. A topic worthy ... deserving serious discussion ... unfortunately you have posted at a wrong site.

Went through link you provided. Reasons? More like excuses. Anyway ... don't know much about 10 reasons article mentions. There is one which I think is worth consideration. Thanks greatly to prevailing "call center culture" ... while male population is lagging behind and having difficult time reconciling ... women folk have advanced way too fast and too quickly in declaring their freedom from sexual repression. Women are no longer constrained by social structure. Even in small towns ... women have started to date men. Many do not hesitate to have physical relationships before settling down with one. A bit exaggerated ... PYAAR KA PANCHNAMA is a fine representation of ground level situation. Men are having difficult time. Men haven't moved. Men are lagging behind. I think so.

Silly if not strange ... women no longer wish to be branded sex objects and yet have no issues dressing as one.

Give any and as many reasons as you want to ... goes without saying ... Rape is a heinous crime ... culprits ought to be hanged by their balls in public places. NO EXCUSES. HANG THESE BASTARDS IRRESPECTIVE OF THEIR AGE.
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Delhi gang-rape: prosecution seeks death for convicts.
Source google News -Hindustan Times - ‎45 minutes ago
Photojournalists take pictures of a Delhi police van believed to be carrying the accused in a gangrape case as it enters Saket Court Complex in New Delhi.

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Went through link you provided. I don't know much about 10 reasons article provides. [B
There is one which I think is worth consideration.[/b] Thanks greatly to prevailing "call center culture" ...
Dont even think about it Badriji. There is nothing to consider about call centers. Since we are talking about rapes, recently the 3 main rapes which to my mind are of course the delhi gang rape, followed by a 5 year old's rape and now the Mumbai. None of them were working in a call center and I would expect no one to even dare ask "what is the 5 year old wearing".

Budmas, the only reason for why a rape happens is because some men cannot keep their pants zipped! A close second reason is the law and order system.
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Re: What is the main reason for rape ?

Main reasons are our social system, education system & off course lack of political and individual will to bring the change.
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The problem is much more deeply rooted than just rape . Rape is only a consequence of the current cultural status of Indian women.

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Re: What is the main reason for rape ?

the main reason is false pride, most rapes occers when a man try to take revenge from his enemy by raping a woman from enemy's family. ladies clothes is a reason also. why men dnt see with evil eye to a fully dressed women ? think deeply.
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the main reason is false pride, most rapes occers when a man try to take revenge from his enemy by raping a woman from enemy's family. ladies clothes is a reason also. why men dnt see with evil eye to a fully dressed women ? think deeply.
there is no single reason for rape in general...a sexually starved, sexually perverted, uncultured or from a different culture, a psychopath, may all initiate actions that may be construed as a rape...but motives may be entirely different.
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there is no single reason for rape in general...a sexually starved, sexually perverted, uncultured or from a different culture, a psychopath, may all initiate actions that may be construed as a rape...but motives may be entirely different.
fully agree. but girls should not show there body.
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fully agree. but girls should not show there body.
yes...lets kill them all and live happily ever after.
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Passersby tweeted photos of a woman 'being sexually assaulted on sidewalk' just a block from a police station ... but not one of them actually helped



Horrific photos of an alleged rape in progress have been shared on social media after crowds at a college homecoming celebration chose to take pictures and videos of the sex act rather than stopping it.
The woman seen receiving oral sex in the photos and videos reportedly had no idea what happened to her until the next morning when she saw the photos online.
Many of the photos of incident have been taken down by the Instagram users who originally posted them, but news sites like Buzzfeed have republished them.

The woman in the photos contacted the police on Sunday and reported the rape to the Athens, Ohio police department.
Police have confirmed that a sexual assault was reported on Sunday, but they have not said if the victim in question is the woman seen wearing a green top, jeans and brown boots in the photos online.

The captions of the photos indicate that the incident happened on Court Street over Ohio University's homecoming weekend.
That same street is where the school's marching band performed earlier on Saturday, with a large crowd filling the street.
In one of the most graphic photos- which shows the man kneeling in front of the woman as she leans against a Chase bank- makes it clear that there were onlookers just feet away from the incident as it was in progress.

That photo was sent over Twitter to a person who runs one of the biggest revenge porn websites, indicating that the photographer was trying to get it published.

That Twitter user has since deleted their account but they were not the only one to witness the incident.
'Still can believe a dude was ****** *** on court street Saturday night in front of like 10 people,' a different Twitter user wrote.
Not only was the scene of the alleged crime a busy street but it was also one block away from the police station.
Police are still investigating the case but the community is already going on the attack.
'Some of us are really angered and disappointed that no one intervened and they just filmed it,' said Allie Erwin, a student at Ohio University who leads an anti-rape group on campus.
'Their first impulse was to share it on social media and make a mockery of something that was probably the worst thing that’s ever happened to her. There are other people who saw it as her asking for it and think it’s a joke. Basically they’re slut-shaming her for what happened,' she said according to Metro.
'The response on social media is kind of heartbreaking, how harsh and cruel people are being.'

'I don't know that we have a set time yet but we have a time frame we're working with,' police captain Ralph Harvey told local paper The Athens Messenger.

'We’re looking at every aspect and everything that could possibly be a factor.

'Whether (alcohol) was a factor or not may or may not have a bearing on the investigation, so it’s not something we would focus on, especially initially.'



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fully agree. but girls should not show there body.
so, you fit in uncultured or from different culture category....
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I agree sexy dresses can be arousing however rape is not a solution for that. It is crime and it is inhuman. Get married and have a healthy sexy life and this is the solution. Make your women wear sexy dresses.

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Why rape ? Who is responsible for that ?



Do you think the dressing is a reason for rape ? Be honest any men here felt to rape any woman ? (I mean sex without her consent ).

I don't think dressing style of woman makes men to arouse, I heard some saying woman has to stop wearing sexy dress ,that makes men to rape them, i think it is not true, an real men ll not rape an women even he see a
nude woman, yes he may desire to have sex but not rape,
I want to know your view towards rape and what punishment should be given to
them.

Washington post Top 10 reasons why India has a sexual violence problem


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Why rape ? Who is responsible for that ?
Do you think the dressing is a reason for rape ? Be honest any men here felt to rape any woman ? (I mean sex without her consent ).

I don't think dressing style of woman makes men to arouse, I heard some saying woman has to stop wearing sexy dress ,that makes men to rape them, i think it is not true, an real men ll not rape an women even he see a
nude woman, yes he may desire to have sex but not rape,
I want to know your view towards rape and what punishment should be given to
them.

Washington post Top 10 reasons why India has a sexual violence problem


Of late, thats what India has become famous for. One conversation in an elevator. Me, chinky guy and a woman who seemed to be his wife.

Chinky wife to Chinky 'Indo shu shi shang'
Chinky to me 'Are you from India'
Me 'yes'
Chinky 'A lot of rapes happen there?'
Me 'yes'
The conversation ended there. More because, it is a short time between the floors.

Now another one in a 2 hour flight. My neighbor was a lady, who after some intros also asked the same question as Budmaas Ji. Now, i came up with another answer to this.

'It is because of demand and supply'. There are too few women and too many men. This rape problem is more acute in Delhi, Haryana, etc. where the ratio is more messed up (though Mumbai also seems to be trying to catch up with Delhi in this).

Actually, would that not be the reason. Too many men and too few women. And men coming from places, where girls are not even allowed to be born.
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