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Old June 16th, 2015, 01:44 PM
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The benefits of losing all emotion

Emotion clouds your judgement.So individuals without emotion naturally would be highly effective, as far as logical reasoning and practicality is concerned.

No emotion = efficiency

Here are some advantages

  • You don't fall in love- less drama in life
  • Somebody is trying to humiliate you? - You don't give a f***
  • Friends forgot your birthday? - Never mind, they still are your friends
  • Somebody is trying to please you for his own good? - Never falling for that trap
  • Somebody is showing off his lavish lifestyle to make you jealous? - Let them have a hard time doing so
Apart from this you get rid of unnecessary obligations.

In short life becomes easy and blissful, bliss - that you can no longer feel
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Old June 16th, 2015, 03:06 PM
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Re: The benefits of losing all emotion

In fact anger is a necessary thing, a part of life, and so with the emotions and feelings,….
and anger is the only thing helping you so that, you can hold with your passion if had diverted to a right way in a right directions.

I had seen this TED video.
So feelings and emotions are necessary, and after all we all are human beings with a beating heart and not stones.

So emotions are part of the life.

Had this discussion on TED :

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Old June 16th, 2015, 03:12 PM
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In fact anger is a necessary thing, a part of life, and so with the emotions and feelings,….
and anger is the only thing helping you so that, you can hold with your passion if had diverted to a right way in a right directions.

I had seen this TED video.
So feelings and emotions are necessary, and after all we all are human beings with a beating heart and not stones.

So emotions are part of the life.
Agree with you Sir. + reps coming your way.

What makes you angry?
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Re: The benefits of losing all emotion

Santa saar,.. How's going !

You asked what makes me and/or others angry ?
would say, Everything. Why not ? Just like with everyone else.

After all,. we all are humans full of joy, tears, cheers, whining, sorrowing, soothing, weeping, and feel joy, happiness, tear, sympathy, unhappiness, sadness, woes, worries, sorrows, pleasure, cheer, stress, tension, pressure, and all such,....
and it's quite normal and ok.
Few weeps and whines inside,.... few shows their joy and happiness outerly.
Parents generally do not cry in front of their kids, so they weep and whines innerly.

We all are humans,..
and, a beating heart rule sthere, which brings joy, tears, sadness, sorrows, happiness and all kind of humanly feelings and emotions.
No one is exception. Even a guy like jeffery Dehmer / Saddam will cry,. if he is told that his daughter / momma / son is dead
n' it will also trouble him the same, no matter one is a Sadhu or Shaitaan !

Smart are those guys who never let die their anger and convert into a passion ( Jom, jussa, josh, Zanoon, aaveg n' aakrosh ) for the usefulness and fruitfulness/brightness of family, kids' their own and nation's welfare, like Eiestein, madam curie or Newton.. etc

here, is an Indian guy on TED, ( Kailaash Satyaarthii ) worth listening to him, how to convert anger into a passion.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/HI7zfpitZpo



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After all,. we all are humans
Is why I asked.. away from computers.. in real life.. what makes you angry? what makes you laugh? what is your passion?

If not too personal..
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The whole vices and evils in the human society,…. Fights and riots over religion, rape, khoona-marki, katle-aam, chori, dakaiti, loot, murder, rape, child abuses and women abuses, sucking of teh poors by rich, corrupted politicians, worst society sytem, even worse than that the God’s system where all innocents rabbits and deers are being hunted,( justice is delayed till janmo-janamaantar and perhaps further more,.. who knows ! ) by predators like lions and tigers,.. all and anything bad, evil and worst in the human society,.. just like you and any normal persons,..gets angry with,..

We had once threads at one places,..

What do you dislike the most and makes angry in America,..
Also what do you dislike in India,..
And I can direct you to those links ( via PM ) been discussed among tons of desi members,..

There had also one beautiful thread at one place,.. how and why the Indians get angry so easily and fast and on which matters and basis and what makes them, so !
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And everything such affects to me also equally, as I am also the same human being and a part and particle of the same society ! No ?

Just a normal Insaan.

I hate and dislike and it makes me angry, furious and upset,
whichever does to you, too or any normal insaan !



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Re: The benefits of losing all emotion

Good life mean balance of everything. Human still need emotions in moderate quantity.
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Emotions are essential and it's a part of life.

Yadi, kisi aadami ka nikat ka saga-snehijan gujar jo jaata hai,..naa, aur woh insaan achanak shaant-soon-moon aur smashaan-vat sa ho jata hai,... to use bhi toh, "pet kar ke" thoda sa jee bhar ke rulaa dena parta hai,.. taki woh gale ka dooma baahar nikal jaaye, varna woh insaan ko andar hi andar kisi dimach ki tarah kaat le kha jaata hai ! Smtmes, even too much supression of the emotions is also a murder it's like you try compress a spring infinitely,.. it's like you try to sneeze and somehow if you could control it, it can break any blood vein or vessel, causing the detah.

Emotions are do needed, no matter you try lakh to hide, suppress and fake it, as if, it did not affect you.
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Emotions are essential and it's a part of life.

Yadi, kisi aadami ka nikat ka saga-snehijan gujar jo jaata hai,..naa, aur woh insaan achanak shaant-soon-moon aur smashaan-vat sa ho jata hai,... to use bhi toh, "pet kar ke" thoda sa jee bhar ke rulaa dena parta hai,.. taki woh gale ka dooma baahar nikal jaaye, varna woh insaan ko andar hi andar kisi dimach ki tarah kaat le kha jaata hai ! Smtmes, even too much supression of the emotions is also a murder it's like you try compress a spring infinitely,.. it's like you try to sneeze and somehow if you could control it, it can break any blood vein or vessel, causing the detah.

Emotions are do needed, no matter you try lakh to hide, suppress and fake it, as if, it did not affect you.
People abuse you for emotions, I think is what administrator is trying to say. People take advantage of you.


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