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Old March 5th, 2002, 01:56 AM
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Question Why Marry at all

I have never been able to understand that why do people get married ?

What is that u can accomplish by getting married which can't be accomplished without getting married?

If u really love and trust a person ...then isn't getting married an insult to that love and trust?

The truth is that U get married just to insure that love and trust as u feel insecure with the feeling that someday he / she might say tata bye bye to u ....

Getting married is absolutely sick ....I am of the opinion that :-

Getting married is the only adventure open to the timid

Marriage is an attempt at the peaceful coexistence of two nervous systems.It's a thing done just out of desperation .....an experiment which is often tried ....Their may be good , but their are no pleasant marraiges ...atleast I have nver heard of or seen any pleasant marriage .

If u love a person then why not just simply stay with him / her ...why do u have to name a relationship ...

U have only one life to live then why waste it by unnecessarily increasing ur responsibilities .....Why can't a person just live for himself / herself ...Why is that the socitey demands that u shud get married ?

Whats so wrong in living in sin ?

This is one question which has always haunted me from years.

IS it written in some book that u have to get married anbd then produce babies and then unnecessarly increase ur troubles ?
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Old March 5th, 2002, 02:25 AM
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Are your parents married? If yes, you got the amswer. If not then you get married, you will get the answer.
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Old March 5th, 2002, 07:11 AM
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I have never been able to understand that why do people get married ?

What is that u can accomplish by getting married which can't be accomplished without getting married?

If u really love and trust a person ...then isn't getting married an insult to that love and trust?

The truth is that U get married just to insure that love and trust as u feel insecure with the feeling that someday he / she might say tata bye bye to u ....

Getting married is absolutely sick ....I am of the opinion that :-

Getting married is the only adventure open to the timid

Marriage is an attempt at the peaceful coexistence of two nervous systems.It's a thing done just out of desperation .....an experiment which is often tried ....Their may be good , but their are no pleasant marraiges ...atleast I have nver heard of or seen any pleasant marriage .

If u love a person then why not just simply stay with him / her ...why do u have to name a relationship ...

U have only one life to live then why waste it by unnecessarily increasing ur responsibilities .....Why can't a person just live for himself / herself ...Why is that the socitey demands that u shud get married ?

Whats so wrong in living in sin ?

This is one question which has always haunted me from years.

IS it written in some book that u have to get married anbd then produce babies and then unnecessarly increase ur troubles ?

Basic Nature of the human bieng.
The Homo Sapiens of the Animal species has this inkling to name every relationship...to give it a valid form.

Just take a look at the pigs. Do they get married? NO.
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Basic Nature of the human bieng.
The Homo Sapiens of the Animal species has this inkling to name every relationship...to give it a valid form.

Just take a look at the pigs. Do they get married? NO.
Pigs .... Humans .... Arya .... reminds me of some commanality in a certain thread

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Old March 5th, 2002, 07:21 AM
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Arya ji ! ye kya kiya aapne,apni real pic hi avtaar bana daali?
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Arya babu jaraa kaayde ke logical jawaab dene kaa aap kyaa lenge ?:
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Arya babu jaraa kaayde ke logical jawaab dene kaa aap kyaa lenge ?:
Arya ji needs only U CSCB!
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Old March 5th, 2002, 08:33 AM
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was the pig logic not OK?
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Aryaa ji ek se ek kamaal kamaal logic dete ho aap bhee naa ...kabhi kitchen garden logic to justify ur cow eating inspite of ur being a devotee of lord krishnaa aur ab PIG logic ....
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Marriage:

There shall be no widows in the land,
for I will marry them all; there shall
be no orphans, for I will father them all
XXCUT
The marriage question is a proper subject of philosophical inquiry, involving an examination and analysis of both polygamy and monogamy. Of the latter form of marriage the Christian world has known too much, and of the former too little, to have felt, hitherto the need of any analysis of either. We have inherited our monogamy, or the marriage system which restricts each man to one wife only, and have practised it as a matter of course, without any special examination or inquiry: so that we really know little concerning its origin or its early history; while we know still less of the system of polygamy.
PASTE XX
There is definitely no doubt to the Institution of Marriage which out Gods themselves solemnized. To point out a few:
Theres is not vital interest of mankinds it affects unfavorably.
It perpetuates our race, an organised society. promotes industry, accumulates wealth, and most of all builds the house.

Againg this reminds me of the statement: "Love, and love only, is the loan for love" which basically should be self explanatory to you CSCB its counters your whole koshan!
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Aryaa ji ek se ek kamaal kamaal logic dete ho aap bhee naa ...kabhi kitchen garden logic to justify ur cow eating inspite of ur being a devotee of lord krishnaa aur ab PIG logic ....
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Marriage is the root cause of every divorce

Don't u think so ?
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