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Old March 5th, 2002, 08:57 AM
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Boy was that Totally dumb!! CSCB......only when ppl marry will divorces take place but if u dont marry u can do things and you are not answerable to the other half.

Say I dont marry.....and liv with my Girl. There is more chance i will do things which I know i should not and at this juncture I aint e1 questionable u see.
"Marriage is the root cause of divorce" well "There is not life without Marriage" and gosh divorce is something thats takes place when the couple is outta love which would take place e1 if u dont marry its jus a "BREAK UP" then!!
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Old March 5th, 2002, 09:45 AM
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Marriage - Laddu logic

I know all of you would have heard this one.

" Marrige ek aisa laddu hai, Jo khata hai pachtat hai jo nahin khata hai wo bhi pachtata hai "

So it is better to eat it and then face the music. It may turn out to be tasty.

CSCB, BTW, Are you married ? This discussion is just for time pass or you really hold this close to your heart
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Old March 5th, 2002, 09:48 AM
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Aryaa ji ek se ek kamaal kamaal logic dete ho aap bhee naa ...kabhi kitchen garden logic to justify ur cow eating inspite of ur being a devotee of lord krishnaa aur ab PIG logic ....
CSCB, just halt and think about it for a minute.
Man being a social animal needs some institutions to keep the social structure intact, otherwise we would be just like pigs. Marriage is one such institution.
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>> IS it written in some book that u have to get married anbd then produce babies and then unnecessarly increase ur troubles ?
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No. But why adhere to any ONE principle. People are different. Those who do not want babies, responsibilities, whatever... need not marry. But why say that NO ONE else should get married either. A truly unfettered and free mind accepts opposing ideas too. By upholding one single law for all... you are doing the same thing as those people do who say everyone must get married.

Marry, don't marry, do what you like, each to his own.

Marriage is not required for just having a relationship. But if you want to have a child, and dont want the child to grow in single parent household, or atleast in places like india... have child being labeled as bastard... marriage is the answer. Once you decide to have a child, its not just you who has to face society for something which is against social norms, its the child who has to face the same. So thats what would make things complicated for people wishing to remain single and fancy free.
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The whole funda is stability of society!!.......we do not want more hoes than normal girls........we do not want ppl dying of aids or suffering from gonnohraea or syphillis or whatever the hell!!

Apart from that as i mentioned earlier perpetuates humane values and not animal instincts in our race!
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Thumbs up marriage is for the kids

Marriage is for the protection of the kids and their psycological well being. I belive it is one aspect of human social evolution. Imagine a world with out marriage, guys need to be fighting with each other before every sexual intercourse with a female. I guess not much time could have been spared for doing any thing else other than getting laid. I dont think human society would have been able to advance as it has with that kind of propagating your genes centered mentality. We should also remember that human sexuality is not seasonal (whole of the year). I guess marriage has bought a social order and history and purpose to human society. I am sure every one of us can trace ourself back to a couple of generations and identify ourself in the society with history. If there was no concept of marriage then we would not be able to identify ourself as a person at least it would be difficult. No wonder bastard is a big bad word in every society.
yeah I know that marriage is a bitter pill but we need it.
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for the sake of argument:

If there were no such funda as marriage, what could have happened?

Every day, u would try and get an acquantaince to spend a night with you to satisfy ur sexual urge.....and that is what is happening in the so-called "high society".......men/women talk about achieving something in life, but on a daily routine, they are trying to entice their co-worker...someday success--somedays a failure.

Remove the word Bastard from the dictionary.
Then it is no longer a bad word.

BTW,
Animals have intercourse on a random basis? don't they get any diseases like AIDS, VD,etc.
Why does the human bieng suffer?
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Marriage is Good for fairer of the sexes..

In a way, It is good for the women. They get protection from the lusty fellas(most of the time) Otherwise, it will be like "jis ki athi us ki bhess"
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Thumbs down Re: marriage is for the kids

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marriage is for the kids.
I disagree.
Kids should not be allowed to marry.
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for the sake of argument:

If there were no such funda as marriage, what could have happened?

Remove the word Bastard from the dictionary.
Then it is no longer a bad word.

BTW,
Animals have intercourse on a random basis? don't they get any diseases like AIDS, VD,etc.
Why does the human bieng suffer?

hayn..........AIDS came from dem monkeys!!
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Old March 5th, 2002, 01:41 PM
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but monkey don't suffer, AFAIK
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Yes they are dormant carriers of aids. It does not screw up their immune system somehow. Some stupid african in his passion must have slept with a monkey and all hell broke loose.
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Arya jee aapke roop din pa din aapke kitchen garden logic and pig logic kee tarah badalte jaa rahein hai ...maazraa kyaa hai ..kisko chase kar rahe ho aap apne naye avatar mei ...daude jaa rahe ho bus rajdhani express kee tarah .

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