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Old June 4th, 2015, 01:44 AM
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Re: Why Marry at all

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I have never been able to understand that why do people get married ?

What is that u can accomplish by getting married which can't be accomplished without getting married?

If u really love and trust a person ...then isn't getting married an insult to that love and trust?

The truth is that U get married just to insure that love and trust as u feel insecure with the feeling that someday he / she might say tata bye bye to u ....

Getting married is absolutely sick ....I am of the opinion that :-

Getting married is the only adventure open to the timid

Marriage is an attempt at the peaceful coexistence of two nervous systems.It's a thing done just out of desperation .....an experiment which is often tried ....Their may be good , but their are no pleasant marraiges ...atleast I have nver heard of or seen any pleasant marriage .

If u love a person then why not just simply stay with him / her ...why do u have to name a relationship ...

U have only one life to live then why waste it by unnecessarily increasing ur responsibilities .....Why can't a person just live for himself / herself ...Why is that the socitey demands that u shud get married ?

Whats so wrong in living in sin ?

This is one question which has always haunted me from years.

IS it written in some book that u have to get married anbd then produce babies and then unnecessarly increase ur troubles ?
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Old June 4th, 2015, 07:29 AM
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Re: Why Marry at all

The sorry fact is, the human and living body cells die and deteriorate and at one stage, losses its all youngie generation power,.... for all,.. every one gets old,…. We all know the fact, that when we were infants someone helped us to eat, drink and make us walk and survive, cleaning our poo and piss,.. and it also will need when we get older,.... as oldhood is also the second childhood,… REF: movies: Piku, Avtar and Baghbaan,..

Evan an arthii needs four person to lift it,..to carry it to smashaan,.


Even a plane needs two pilots,.. if in case one gets sick, unconscious, his eyes gets stroke, he gets heart attack,... his hand/legs get temporary seeping,.. What will be up in the air,… , then who will land, steer or gear the plane!

Similarly ( let say,… generation–contribution to the mother earth apart ) but a single human body can get sick, handicapped, old, mentally broken, physically and financially broken and may need shoulder somewhere,. Either of wife or kids,.. 'Coz yr parents had an age-diff of 25-30+ yrs with yours and hence they are not here, for your long life support till end,..

Hence the marriage system has been established on the fact that Human is a social animal and he can’t just live alone, he needs support and comfort, mentally, physically and financially and hence the vows and bond of marriage can into the existence of two opposite gender almost equal age of human beings of having more probability of almost the same living span if every thing went well….

So,.. everyone now days think,. Wass' wrong with a free bird life ? non-marrying and having living relationship and moving with him and her all the way, we wish and daily enjoy new food, new body and eat drink and be marry ! But the problem is,. When a time comes,.... Then no body is yours, you find yrself all alone and isolated,.. no matter how much money you have, the situation is an old sick tigers and all coyotes all around him, waiting for his death,… ! His situation among all of tons of his friends/gfs/bfs/ and neighbors is,.. he is jack of all,.. but master of none. And, that’s were own blood, siblings, and wife etc. differs a bit,…

One sort of blood boils at the same time,.. and

Blood remains always n' all-ways thicker than water
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Even Rajesh khanna died , at least this orphan guy was lucky that he had not divorced Dimpy and also having daughters so on that basis even, he was supported by Dimpy when in last stages of hospital,..and SIL and such !

So keeping in mind the tajuraba of so many generation and thousands of years, the marriage sytem ( faithfulness with one person and blood-shared relationship with kids and siblings ) is established,. But today the youngies feel that live in relationship and different person dating each diff day is the ideal system with bearing no kids,.. roaming around,.. eat drink and Be marry in company with drug, sex and hobbies,... ( LSD ) and doing rang-railiyaan with rum, rummy and raands, Pro and Hos,.. i-pills, IPLs and condoms,. Will be the true way of life,..! Wrong. At teh right time, will have to pay its price,.. !


And we have paid prices in terms of AIDS and many other kinds mouth and other cancers ,..

Certain system has come into an effect after a thousand of years of Tajurbaa and it has to smthg in it,… and hence it had survived for last 5000+ yrs of know human civilization,..

As the time passes by,.. maa-baap chal baste hai,… all others have their bonds with wife-kids and at that time, guys like baajpeyi, Kalaam, Modi and salmaan, may realize the value of family,…on that extreme sun-set age-time,.. though, they have powers and celeb. Popularity,... but an ordinary man would face a lot, when that time comes,…of paying its value, and even having 1000 crs in bank balance and staying in some retirement homes where no one is of yr own blood that can understand you, your pain and feel !


And,.. somewhere from far,.. these lyrics- sounds, hits the ear-drum, very hard !
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Re: Why Marry at all

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Great inputs as usual. you could copy, paste all your original posts and bring them into a book 'Jaggu's lesson's on life Jani'

Somewhere else you mentioned that you are planning to go solo. Are you going to marry again or remain solo.
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