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View Poll Results: Soulmates?
Are you in a relationship 3 50.00%
Are you soulmates (beyond body, beyond mind kind of relationship) 1 16.67%
Our relationship is not soulful 4 66.67%
We cant classify our relationship? 2 33.33%
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Old October 22nd, 2010, 10:39 AM
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Are you soul-mates?

When I was in the arranged marriage process, our esteeemed echarchans and most of my friends did not miss any opportunity to advise me on zeroing onto a good marriage partner ...

Anyways, we all are used to Bollywood style romanticism ... And I think I used to know or believe what a soul-mate is all about ...

Well that knowledge did not work out in my search ... I knew that what Bollywood projects is not realism ... my parents are not soul-mates (as per Bolllywood definition) ... Mine is neither ...

So first, do you think in this world, there may be a possibility to find a soul-mate? What do you think are the qualifications of a soul-mate? Is your existing relationship a kind of a relationship between two soul-like-entities (i.e. beyond the mind and beyond the body, i.e. the soul (my crude and intellectual definition)) ...

OR is it that you think soul-mates is a mental fancy ... good concept for enjoying bollywood romantic movies on a lazy sunday afternoon ...




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Re: Are you soul-mates?

The only perfect soul-mate that you will ever find in the world is your hand
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How do I know if my husband is my soul mate (or not)?
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Re: Are you soul-mates?

I don't know how you have defined soul-mate. But to me a very simplistic definition would be someone with whom you can have an open relationship (physical as well as spiritual). There should be nothing hidden from each other, both partners understand and respect each other's feelings, will not make unreasonable demands of one another (tere liye chand sitaare tod laoonga!), and give each other 'personal space' when needed.

I can't imagine all this happening in an instant (love at first sight), but over a few years it is possible.

Also your poll is setup incorrectly, since you are asking more questions in the poll.
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jo bhi ho bas banda shareef hona chahye.
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jo bhi ho bas banda shareef hona chahye.
check my earlier response. That's why I said hand... there is no one more shareef then your hand.
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seriously , i hate desperate guys n gals. i mean usually our cheap desi men men r like that. Wife ghar main bache smbhal rahi hai n they flirt wid other cheap gals of their standards. Mou toor do isye bando n bandiyo ka. Ridiculous
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seriously , i hate desperate guys n gals. i mean usually our cheap desi men men r like that. Wife ghar main bache smbhal rahi hai n they flirt wid other cheap gals of their standards. Mou toor do isye bando n bandiyo ka. Ridiculous

those bandiyan cant be blamed as per our SC
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agar banda shareef na ho na to lanat hai isi zindi pe. IMHO
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jo bhi ho bas banda shareef hona chahye.
shareef ...nobody is shareef ..shareef to female donkey hoti hai jo chup rahti hai ....

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When I was in the arranged marriage process, our esteeemed echarchans and most of my friends did not miss any opportunity to advise me on zeroing onto a good marriage partner ...

Anyways, we all are used to Bollywood style romanticism ... And I think I used to know or believe what a soul-mate is all about ...

Well that knowledge did not work out in my search ... I knew that what Bollywood projects is not realism ... my parents are not soul-mates (as per Bolllywood definition) ... Mine is neither ...

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OR is it that you think soul-mates is a mental fancy ... good concept for enjoying bollywood romantic movies on a lazy sunday afternoon ...

poll asking questions... are you soulmates.. I should check this if I think 'yes'??
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seriously , i hate desperate guys n gals. i mean usually our cheap desi men men r like that. Wife ghar main bache smbhal rahi hai n they flirt wid other cheap gals of their standards. Mou toor do isye bando n bandiyo ka. Ridiculous
It is indeed very bad... and here we were thinking he just broke your heart. He actually left you and your (his?) kids behind for some cheap flooze? That is shameful
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shareef ...nobody is shareef ..shareef to female donkey hoti hai jo chup rahti hai ....


hote hain. but good ppl are rare....
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seriously , i hate desperate guys n gals. i mean usually our cheap desi men men r like that. Wife ghar main bache smbhal rahi hai n they flirt wid other cheap gals of their standards. Mou toor do isye bando n bandiyo ka. Ridiculous
Have to agree with you darling... I too hate such people... koii character naam ki cheez hi nahin rah gayi hai, batao... aur ladkiyon ka to poochho hi mat...they are so cheap...uff.
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Have to agree with you darling... I too hate such people... koii character naam ki cheez hi nahin rah gayi hai, batao... aur ladkiyon ka to poochho hi mat...they are so cheap...uff.

world is changing fast . having gfs bfs is no big deal .kissing , going on dates is considered cool n hip . But wot happens at the end? flirts remain flirts n never find true love in their lives. At the end of the day we get what we really want. seriously, love is the most important thing in a marriage. if there's no love there's no reason for getting married. N if ur banda or bandi is a flirt , break his/her teeth n donot tolerate his/her nonsense if u urself r a good man/woman.
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