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View Poll Results: How do you react to an insult .
Slap that person who insulted you 8 26.67%
Kick and Slap 6 20.00%
Ignore , forget and next time be on gaurd 13 43.33%
Ignore for now, wait for an opportunity to insult back 14 46.67%
Act naive. 2 6.67%
Cut off all relations with that person 10 33.33%
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Old February 27th, 2006, 03:43 PM
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How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

I was just wondering how do different human beings react to an insult or a taunt.

I for instance will keep my cool even if I get angry and try to forget that I was hurt by that person. I shall be on gaurd the next time I come across that person. If that person is very vicious I shall cut of all relations with that person. But if that person is tolerable I shall forgive and forget.
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Old February 27th, 2006, 04:39 PM
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

Try a comeback. If cannot think of one.. just wait to bit$ch slap the son fo a biyatch the next time...

Have you seen the South Park episode where eirc Cartman has a really awesome revenge on the grown up kid who teases him? Eric gets the kid's parents killed and feeds them through chilli to the kid mixed with pubes!! Awesome episode!!!
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

I try to get baxk, doesnt work most times becoz the opportunity may come too late to cause an impact or I have plain forgotten abt it.

But I dont let anything make me feel horrible and usually i keep my distance from persons like these.
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

Generally I will wait for an opportunity to get back. If don't then just ignore. Or in some case like a relative insults me for a stupid reason and not even my fault, then cut off.
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

Cancer's response is of a typical 'mature' Hindu who is desperate to be known as 'Secular'.
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

Depends on the degree of the insult..If it is usual bantering ,I don't mind it...
But if the guy is serious then .....I give it back with compound interest.
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

I try tit-for-tat or else I show them...(see attached pic)

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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

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Cancer's response is of a typical 'mature' Hindu who is desperate to be known as 'Secular'.
Ya I agree... There is nothing achieved by waiting for your turn. You should give it right then and there. If I cannot comeback with a good one, then I wait for the next time when I can achieve much more than a simple comeback line. I want to fuck that person really bad in public. Make that person squeal like a pig.

Only a killer instinct can help me maintain my some self respect.

Out here, I deal with all types of people on echarcha - mostly nice folks, but we have some real morons with a thumb up their ass. Earlier when i was naive at running a website, I used to be very 'okay okay relax' types.

Now.. I am more like - FUCK You if you dont like it here. And Fuck you if you want to attack me for no reason.

Well, there.. Cancer learn to hit back or else you will be walked over by all sorts of chutttiyaas.. Dont take it lying down.
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

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Try a comeback. If cannot think of one.. just wait to bit$ch slap the son fo a biyatch the next time...

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This seems easy solution when you are a teenager or still too young to accept the fact that there are many miserable people out there who are bound to be jealous of your success, your happiness, and your job. Then there are arsoles who are plain jealous of your wife, home, car, watch or whatever.

Women do it to you ... easy to accept and explain as well. Its hard to understand men ... why the fo(k men do it unless hidden inside them is a freak woman.

Comebacks dont always work. Remember ... you are dealing with miserable person. By the time you are prepared with a comeback on the last taunt ... he/she already has another arsenal up his/her arse.

Never slap or beat the shit out of him/her. You'll only end up in police lockup till someone bails you out ... verbally you can lick culprit's mother's pussy but you never lift your hand ... a big NO ... not in these wetern countries. How many people have ended up in trouble just cause they beatup or shot an intruder in home.

Ignore seem easy way out except it does not work either. See ... its lyk thees ... you are ignoring the bitch to simply ignore and save yourself shit you need no part of. After couple of meetings/ parties/ functions/ whatever ... bitch knows he/she is being ignored. He/she will TRY and OUTDO your ignore with even more effective IGNORER system. Not only will he/she IGNORER you but also make up a noisy drama out of IGNORERING you while all you are simply doing is poor little ignore.


I will explain how it works ... you are ignoring the bitch at a party. Bitch knows you are ignoring him/her. You are standing with a colleague a friend or wheatever. Bitch will comein, IGNORER you big deal and tell your friend if he can have a private chat with him on some important matter. You stand there wondering ... who won ... your plain little ignore or Bitch's big time IGNORER.

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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

bhai pahlee baat to yeh ki in person koi insult karne ki himmat nahi karta, agar karegaa to hafte bhar ka kharchaa paani le ke hospital jaayega,
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

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I was just wondering how do different human beings react to an insult or a taunt.

I for instance will keep my cool even if I get angry and try to forget that I was hurt by that person. I shall be on gaurd the next time I come across that person. If that person is very vicious I shall cut of all relations with that person. But if that person is tolerable I shall forgive and forget.
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Have you seen the South Park episode where eirc Cartman has a really awesome revenge on the grown up kid who teases him? Eric gets the kid's parents killed and feeds them through chilli to the kid mixed with pubes!! Awesome episode!!!
Yup, I remember that one. Chilli(ng) episode.
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

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Cancer's response is of a typical 'mature' Hindu who is desperate to be known as 'Secular'.
Hehehehehe . Well I wont call myself secular or mature but the thing is that I fall under that category of people who just dont know how to taunt back or get back immediately. And if I keep waiting for an opportunity I hamper my haelth. So better keep away from such rogues
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Re: How do you react when you are insulted or taunted .

None of the poll option fits me. In such situation I get extremely hurt and always cry out. I don't hurt anybody so easily so getting hurt by somebody is absolutely difficult for me. I try to find the reason -- Why did he/she said so ? Am I at fault? If it is not my fault then I do straight talk to the person. If he/she sensible enough then things end happy happy but if the person is not sensible to accept his fault then I prefer to distance away. Sometimes there won't be opportunity to talk then as time goes by I just forget it rather than keeping it in mind. In recent years I have really worked out to be more stronger and I guess even today I am trying to be tough......
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Hehehehehe . Well I wont call myself secular or mature but the thing is that I fall under that category of people who just dont know how to taunt back or get back immediately. And if I keep waiting for an opportunity I hamper my haelth. So better keep away from such rogues
That is defeatist to get away.. Just reply back. Basically if you cannot think of something really sarcastic to say atleast say - "Oh really? I dont think so. You are rude. You are.." basically say somthing and get it out of your system.
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